Most retirement books are focused solely on the financial aspect of retirement but as many of us are now learning there is much more to a successful retirement. The ultimate goal in retirement should be a simplistic, low stress, healthy, fulfilling lifestyle. This will ultimately optimize the quality of our remaining years. Stop believing that the more money you have saved, translates into a better retirement. Life doesn’t work that way. Continue reading “Blue Zones And Victory Lap Lifestyle”
I rarely get this question when I give my Victory Lap presentations, but I know it is top of mind for many in the audience and I suspect for many of you reading. I know many of the people I speak with did not really want to stop working. Many have worked at the same career for years and now they are scared/uncertain about the future. The question they want to ask, which I will ask for them is: “Am I good enough to get hired again?”
Another RRSP season is now behind us and I don’t know if it’s just me but this one seemed more low key than usual. Maybe Mr. Trump was hogging all the airwaves this time around?
What concerns me is that the advertisers continue to sell us a version of retirement that doesn’t reflect the current reality for many people. The images of the carefree happy couple sitting on a beach while sipping on a strawberry daiquiri, or the couple sailing on a yacht, smiling with the sun shining and the wind blowing through their hair. Continue reading “Every Picture Tells a Story”
I enjoy learning about and sharing stories of real people doing interesting things. These stories serve to remind me what’s possible when you live intentionally and make healthful lifestyle choices. We can learn from these people and use them as inspiration, if they can do it, there is no reason why we can’t do it too!
Here Is A Story About Carol And George
The other day I was at my local bank branch doing some business and the teller asked me how I was enjoying my retirement. Hearing that surprised me but then I realized that they had a message on their computer system that identified me as a retired employee of the bank.
For some reason I felt the need to defend myself and started to explain that I in fact was not retired, that I was busier than ever running my blog, selling my book, serving as a retirement coach and doing public speaking. But then I had a sudden change of heart and decided to stop what I was doing. I realized that defending myself was the OLDME raising its ugly head again and I don’t like OLDME anymore. Continue reading “Retired Me? No Way!”
Last Thursday I made a presentation on Victory Lap Retirement, followed by a Q & A session at the Toronto Public Library – York Woods branch. I love doing these presentations as it gives me an opportunity to present to my fellow boomers and find out what is going on out there in the real world.
After having talked to numerous boomers I’m convinced more than ever that the majority of us boomers really don’t want to retire, we just need a change, and some help figuring out what to do with the rest of our lives.
In this article I would like to share my thoughts on why some people feel the need for a significant change late in their careers and why traditional retirement is not the answer. I know these feelings because it happened to me. Continue reading “Why People Like Me Can’t Retire”
I was at my local Indigo bookstore this past weekend and look at who happened to stop by.
I’m really starting to believe in this karma thing as more and more chance encounters like this are happening to me since writing the book.
Through this chance meeting I had the chance to talk to Heather about Victory Lap Retirement and my concern that we had miscategorized the book by putting it into the personal finance/retirement section. Heather was kind enough to share her thoughts and now I’m convinced that our book should be in the self improvement section. Continue reading “In Pursuit Of Boomer Happiness”
Last night I finally got back in the pool again. It’s been about three years since I last swam at my community pool and it was quite a struggle just to get there. My original plan was to begin swimming in early January, but I caught a terrible cold followed by a dry cough that just didn’t want to go away, which ultimately delayed my return.
I was away from swimming for a long time because I got caught up writing my book Victory Lap Retirement. I’ve always had the bad habit of going “all-in” on a new endeavor. It consumed me, which is not a very good thing, and there are consequences to living like that. More importantly my wife the Contessa didn’t take it very well. Something about getting up every morning at 4:30 to write and then falling asleep on the couch around 9:00 every night, probably had something to do with it! Continue reading “Back At The Pool Again”
Since I had never written a book before, I did what made sense to me and wrote the last chapter first. This is apparently a no-no in the writing world but I knew how I wanted my life to play out and what’s wrong with writing a story with a happy ending for yourself. Makes sense to me!
My Own Victory Lap
Our book Victory Lap Retirement is all about designing your lifestyle. My overriding goal, in writing the book, was to help me design a fulfilling low stress lifestyle that would deliver maximum happiness over the next ten years. Instead of looking forward I now live with a sense of urgency. It’s all about living happy now, not delaying it to some point down the road. Now don’t get me wrong I’m not spending money like a drunken sailor, I still have to justify the investment to myself. Let’s just say I’m no longer concerned with saving money anymore. Continue reading “My Year End Review”
There is something very wrong with the work world today. It is far too common to find employees who are tired, over-worked, stressed out, and living in fear of an uncertain future. As a result, people are eating too much, watching too much television, and complaining too much, often self-medicating with drugs and/or alcohol or taking prescription medication to cope with their stress. How can it be that in North America, with two of the most prosperous societies in the world, people are taking more medications for anxiety, depression, and sleep disorders than ever before?
Blame it on the big dip. Continue reading “No One Told Me It Would Be Like This”