I was reading an article on CNBC entitled “Advisory firms turn to life coaches, psychologists” by Deborah Nason. It talked about Financial Advisors getting more questions from clients that are more about lifestyle, work life balance, family, etc., which is outside of their financial expertise. In an effort to support their clients, financial professionals are developing relationships with other professionals, such as social workers, psychologists, life coaches and counsellors, in order to have a referral source for their clients. This begs the question “Do you need a coach to help you with your Victory Lap?” Continue reading “Do You Need A Victory Lap Coach”
While on the George at some point I always start thinking about how many good years I have left. I’m sure this is triggered while thinking about Bill who at age 84 has been making the annual pilgrimage to the George for the past 35 years. One year I know his string of visits will be broken and the thought of going there and not seeing him saddens me but that unfortunately is how life works.
If you have read our book or our blogs you know we are big fans of the book Blue Zones by Dan Buttner. Mr. Buttner has studied what makes people happy and healthy around the world. We learn there are different definitions of happy but there are lots of commonality amongst the happiest people in the world. If you have not had a chance take some time and read Blue Zones.
I just got back from my annual fishing trip to the George and it was the best trip ever. The fishing was fantastic, the weather better than normal and I’ve truly fallen in love with the place. It’s become my fortress of solitude, my get alone and think place, but it wasn’t always that way. I smile every time I think about my first visit there, three years ago. Continue reading “Unplugged On The George (Part 1 of 2)”
This week’s blog will be a little shorter, it is the summer so this will allow you to have a quick read then get out and enjoy the warm weather, after all Labour Day is just around the corner.
When I was working full time, the company’s fiscal year end was October 31, so the fall was a time to review achievements and plan for the new fiscal year, I still take this attitude into my personal life. As many of you finish enjoying the summer it is a good time to review your life style and financial plans and take time to think about life after your first career. Continue reading “MORE GOOD NEWS ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE”
I was reading an article in the New York Times on the difficulty older people have proving a bias or harm when fired, deleted, given the pink slip, or the newest term I have seen – transitioned through. Without clear proof of harm there is a long uphill legal battle with little chance at compensation. Continue reading “Time To Turn The Page”
Suggested Reading Prior To Commencing Your Victory Lap Retirement
A question that frequently comes up at our seminars is what books we would recommend people read to help prepare themselves for a successful VL. I think this happens because many of our talks are held at libraries and people there are accustomed to doing their own research. There are a lot of good books out there, including Victory Lap Retirement, but the following four will do the job getting you both mentally and financially prepared to launch your own VL. Continue reading ” 4 Books”
I am giving Mike a blog break, as he keeps telling me he is busier now than when he was working for the Corp., but he loves what he is doing! Good Morning another long weekend ends here in Canada and today begins our family’s first day in over 14 years without our dear family dog Sasha. More on that later. Continue reading “Bad Things Are Going to Happen, So Bring On The Joy”
“It’s my life
It’s now or never
I ain’t gonna live forever
I just want to live while I’m alive”
-It’s My Life by Bon Jovi (fellow boomer)
I’m thinking about using the above song as our Victory Lap Retirement (VLR) rallying cry, it’s simple, gets the point across and who doesn’t like Bon Jovi? Please note the absence of the word “retirement” in the lyrics. The song reminds us that now, not tomorrow, is the time to take back control of our life and start living the way that we always wanted to but going through “The Big Dip” never had the time or chance. Continue reading “Victory Lap Retirement: Live Your Best Life Now!”
This question comes up at many presentations I make on Victory Lap Retirement. A strong social network is key to our happiness and longevity. Friendships enrich our lives we should always look to build our social network and build relationships with people we care about.
The challenge for all of us is that we are so busy working and nurturing our family, we can sometimes underinvest in our friendships. Our relationships with friends can also suffer when we are stressed out and in some cases pull back from friends, after all who wants to be a “downer” to our friends Continue reading “Victory Lap Question – When You Retire Where Do All Your Friends Go?”