The Power of Relationships and Community

In his bestselling book “Outliers”, Malcolm Gladwell talked about the magical town of Roseto in eastern Pennsylvania. The town was established by a group of people who immigrated from Roseto, Italy looking for a better life in the late 1890s. When they sent word back to Italy about the exciting possibilities that existed in the US, more and more people immigrated to this new town, which they named New Roseto. The town ended up looking and feeling just like their Italian home. Continue reading “The Power of Relationships and Community”

Retirement Is A Game, Play It Well

Retirement is supposed to be fun, it should feel good or your doing something wrong. Personally I was far too serious starting out on my Victory Lap, and a mistake I made was not taking any time off. Right out of the gate I started working full bore on VLR which turned into two books and before I knew it three years of my retirement was gone, and I was forty pounds overweight. If you asked me if it was worth it I would definitely say yes but it came at a cost. Working part time at Bass Pro would have been so much easier but that would have meant missing out on my dream of creating my own business, and being my own boss, something that I always wanted to do. So I decided upon the hard way and through the process I’ve become very aware that too much seriousness is a kind of disease; it is a cancer of the soul and when your serious all the time you lose the fun. Thankfully I don’t spend any time feeling like that anymore. Continue reading “Retirement Is A Game, Play It Well”

Is Contentment A Necessary Ingredient In A Successful Retirement?

Editors note: sorry we were a little delayed in publishing this week’s blog. Busy with presentations and a small family medical emergency caused  the delay. All is good and we will be back on schedule next week.

Immediately after my mother’s funeral I went on my annual fishing trip to The George. There isn’t much to do there other than fish, sleep and think about things. I ended up spending most of the trip thinking about my mother and the answer I had given to the funeral director about what my mother. Continue reading “Is Contentment A Necessary Ingredient In A Successful Retirement?”

A Mother’s Love

A mother is a person who seeing there are only four pieces of pie for five people, promptly announces she never did care for pie.

T. Jordon

Well it finally happened and in a way I’m glad it did. My mother had been struggling with Parkinsons for a long time, it had taken a big toll,   she was tired with it and told me she was ready to leave for a better place.   Continue reading “A Mother’s Love”

Celebrating Another Milestone

I have told this story before but I wanted to keep you up to date on what we are doing with our Presentation and Coaching business. We set a target date of April 1st to get our coaching guide into edit and guess what it’s there! We are excited knowing that it will help a lot of people figure out this retirement thing having been through the ringer ourselves but it will require a lot of polishing before it’s ready to release to our coaching clients. This will be our last book on the subject and will serve as the foundation for our coaching business so we want to take our time and do it right. After that is done we will add a couple of chapters to the guide and publish it as a DIY coaching guide hopefully by the end of this year. Continue reading “Celebrating Another Milestone”

Creating Your Own Blue Zone – Part 1

In our new transition guide we outline ten key life categories that will increase the chances for a long, healthy, low stress, and fulfilling life. A focus on improving in these ten categories will lead to a pretty good life! It can be as simple as that. In today’s blog I will share some thoughts on the first of these categories – Health and Fitness. Continue reading “Creating Your Own Blue Zone – Part 1”

Create Your Own Blue Zone

The Contessa just got back from visiting her family in Italy and told me that she wants to move there one day because in her words- “they really know how to live” something that we have sadly forgotten here. As is my nature I started to pepper her with questions about why it is so much better, which I learned it basically comes down to lifestyle. They eat better, they exercise more, having to walk or cycle to most places, they socialize more, which leads to less stress. As a result they are happier and it’s been scientifically proven that happier people live longer. Kind of makes you go Hmmm. Why do they have it right and we have it so wrong? Continue reading “Create Your Own Blue Zone”

Live Life Well While You Still Have It

For the record I believe in synchronicity and the law of attraction having experienced both on more than a few occasions. Last December I was involved in an accident with a drunk driver and luckily escaped without injury but it could have been much worse. I believe I was being sent a message reminding me that nothing is guaranteed in this life especially how much time you have left. The accident gave me pause and after some reflection I made a promise to myself to slow down and enjoy life a lot more just like I preach to the VL tribe. But as usual the memory of that event soon faded along with the promise I made and my life once again was being consumed by writing my the new book.

It’s not good to ignore what the universe is trying to tell you. Continue reading “Live Life Well While You Still Have It”