Victory Lap Lifestyle Profile #3

It’s Never Too Late

Active Retirement and HobbiesMany people have heard the story about Grandma Moses who started painting when she was seventy-five years old and still managed to have a twenty-six-year career. Stories like hers seem so distant, so outside the realm of possibility, that it is hard to relate to. That is why I love the following story which was provided to me by our publicist Debby, below is her personal account of how her husband followed his passion and created a dream Victory Lap. A story like this is close to home so it takes on a whole new meaning. Enjoy! Continue reading “Victory Lap Lifestyle Profile #3”

Victory Lap Retirement: Live Your Best Life Now!

“It’s my life

It’s now or never

I ain’t gonna live forever

I just want to live while I’m alive”

-It’s My Life by Bon Jovi (fellow boomer)

I’m thinking about using the above song as our Victory Lap Retirement (VLR) rallying cry, it’s simple, gets the point across and who doesn’t like Bon Jovi? Please note the absence of the word “retirement” in the lyrics. The song reminds us that now, not tomorrow, is the time to take back control of our life and start living the way that we always wanted to but going through “The Big Dip”  never had the time or chance. Continue reading “Victory Lap Retirement: Live Your Best Life Now!”

Victory Lap Question – When You Retire Where Do All Your Friends Go?

This question comes up at many presentations I make on Victory Lap Retirement. A strong social network is key to our happiness and longevity. Friendships enrich our lives we should always look to build our social network and build relationships with people we care about.

The challenge for all of us is that we are so busy working and nurturing our family, we can sometimes underinvest in our friendships. Our relationships with friends can also suffer when we are stressed out and in some cases pull back from friends, after all who wants to be a “downer” to our friends Continue reading “Victory Lap Question – When You Retire Where Do All Your Friends Go?”

Hard Way vs.  Smart Way

One of the mistakes I made transitioning into my own Victory Lap was that I didn’t take any time off to regroup and refresh. I was suffering from “sudden retirement shock”. I wasn’t thinking clearly and I did what I always do when things are going off side, I roll up my sleeves and worked harder. I decided to go into full new business mode, I spent the better part of three years in a cave writing a book and trying to figure things out. Sure things worked out well in the end but it took a lot of time, researching, learning what I needed to know and now looking back I realize that it really didn’t have to be as hard as it was.

I also have a bad habit of always going it alone,  something I developed while working at the Corp., a John Wayne thing. I believed that asking for help was a weakness and it made me look vulnerable. I always took the hard way and would try and figure it all out by myself. That kind of thinking resulted in me not creating and benefitting from mentors. This was a major mistake I made in my career. Life could have been so much easier if only I had been more open minded and willing to ask for help and advice. Continue reading “Hard Way vs.  Smart Way”

Victory lap Lifestyle Profile #2

My mentor Ernie Zelinski put me onto Joe Udo’s website retireby40.org a couple of years ago and I’ve been a faithful follower ever since.

Joe retired from his engineering career to become a stay at home dad/blogger at the age of 38. His reasons for leaving the corporate world were similar to mine, job stress was negatively affecting his health, but he found a way to escape from the corp. 20 years earlier than I did. I would have launched my own Victory Lap a lot sooner if his blog was around when I joined the working world.

Working for a corp. may have been easier if we did not accept the traditional view of a career, which is work for the same company until you retire, get your pension and wait for your final sunset. Both Joe and I feel that we’d rather not work for someone else, but rather chart our own course.  Working for yourself is often a harder path to take but the rewards are much more satisfying. Continue reading “Victory lap Lifestyle Profile #2”

Learn to Play The Long Game

Today’s article is the first in a series written by Simon Chan who started his own VLR earlier this year after working for 20 years in the financial services industry. He has a broad base of experience with the subjects of pre-retirement and financial independence having worked in multiple businesses such as banking, wealth management, insurance and group retirement benefits. Most recently Simon was the head of business strategy for the Canadian Retail Business for a global insurer. In his role, he became interested in how technology, globalization and the rapidly changing environment is impacting the lives of millennials. In short Simon knows his stuff, is a great guy and wants to help.

I believe it’s important that we understand the new challenges that will be faced by our kids and grandkids in the years ahead. It won’t be easy but we can succeed if we all work together. -Mike 

 

 This morning I woke up and as part of my daily routine, I began to read my Twitter feed to catch on the latest basketball news and what’s been happening in the world. Over the past several weeks, I’ve seen several articles on the rapidly changing workplace with the entry of new technologies like artificial intelligence and machines learning. This got me thinking about the “Big Dip” article that I read on the   Victory Lap Retirement blog and whether Millennials who are in the early stages of their lives will experience the “Big Dip” in the same way as the Boomer generation.  

The Early Years (A) 

When I think of what Millennials are dealing with early in their lives and careers my belief is they are facing a much more difficult road than Boomers. Millennials are entering a globally competitive job market which has made post-secondary education table stakes resulting in students taking increasing amounts of debt. In addition to the pressures of school and finding an entry level job to begin the process of paying off their student debt, Millennials are bombarded with marketing messages encouraging them to spend and buy new products. No wonder we are seeing the incidence of anxiety, stress and depression increase in university students and young adults. They feel paralyzed and in constant stake of anxiety. 

The Valley (B) 

Both Boomers and Millennials enter their 30s/40s with increasing levels of responsibility which starts them down the big dip as the mounting obligations of getting married, growing a family, buying a home begin to reduce their financial flexibility and overall freedom. However, Millennials today are entering their 30s already behind the proverbial “8 ball” with higher levels of student debt, historically high housing prices making housing almost unaffordable, and an uncertain job market. To make matters worse, most Millennials will not have access to traditional financial building blocks such as a defined benefit pension plan that provides a guaranteed retirement income stream leaving them to decide how much to save and what investments to choose. This has led some Millennials to reject the path their boomer parents took and consider non-traditional paths such as not having children, rejecting the notion of buying a home, and taking more of a minimalist approach to life.  

The Bumpy Climb (C) 

As Boomers reached their late 40s and 50s, they began to experience more freedom as their children moved out of the home, their incomes began to rise, and financial obligations were declining. For most of their working careers, Boomers had stable jobs and a good pension plan to rely on in retirement. As Millennials reach a similar stage it their lives, the world will not be as stable and constant change will be the new normal. The constant change will result in the need to consider relocation to find work, going back to school to re-skill to remain relevant, and other working models such as freelance and being an entrepreneur. This stage will require Millennials to make multiple life transitions which will create stress both financially and emotionally. This creates questions like how will a Millennial fund these multiple life transitions and will they need to dip into their “retirement” savings. Will Millennials have the resilience to adapt to the ever-changing environment? 

What does this mean? 

My belief is that the Millennial version of the “Big Dip” will be much more challenging than the ones that Boomers experienced. Their journey to higher levels of freedom will be slower than the Boomer generation and will require more life transitions. This means the traditional path to success that the Boomers took is no longer relevant for Millennials. Millennials will need to find a way to play the “Long Game” and develop a new agile approach to maneuver in their constantly changing world.

 

 

 

 

 

Time To Stop Following The Retirement Herd

We are all social animals we crave interaction and generally don’t like being alone. We crave that feeling of togetherness being part of something bigger,  the added comfort and safety that comes with being part of a group or a  herd. The herd protects individuals from being singled out, and in the animal kingdom provides safety from being killed by a predator.

Many people have developed a “herd” mentality in life deriving comfort by going with the flow and if everyone else is going in one direction they must know something that we don’t. It is easier not to complicate things by forging our own path based on what we learn or believe. What happens if we are wrong and the herd is right?

When it comes to retirement the “herd” has been doing this retirement thing for a long time. So they must be right, right?

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Blue Zones And Victory Lap Lifestyle

Most retirement books are focused solely on the financial aspect of retirement but as many of us are now learning there is much more to a successful retirement. The ultimate goal in retirement should be a simplistic, low stress, healthy, fulfilling lifestyle. This will ultimately optimize the quality of our remaining years. Stop believing that the more money you have saved, translates into a better retirement. Life doesn’t work that way.  Continue reading “Blue Zones And Victory Lap Lifestyle”

Getting Your Confidence Back

I rarely get this question when I give my Victory Lap presentations, but I know it is top of mind for many in the audience and I suspect for many of you reading. I know many of the people I speak with did not really want to stop working. Many have worked at the same career for years and now they are scared/uncertain about the future. The question they want to ask, which I will ask for them is: “Am I good enough to get hired again?”

 

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Every Picture Tells a Story

 

 

 

Another RRSP season is now behind us and I don’t know if it’s just me but this one seemed more low key than usual. Maybe Mr. Trump was hogging all the airwaves this time around?

What concerns me is that the advertisers continue to sell us a version of retirement that doesn’t reflect the current reality for many people. The images of the carefree happy couple sitting on a beach while sipping on a strawberry daiquiri, or the couple sailing on a yacht, smiling with the sun shining and the wind blowing through their hair.           Continue reading “Every Picture Tells a Story”